Posts in In Home Care
Learning How Not to Drive: Clinical Driving Assessments, Driving Skills Evaluations, and What Comes Next

Learning to drive is a rite of passage when we are teenagers and learning how not to drive is just as significant a rite of passage as we age. In this blog post, we explore clinical driving assessments and driving skills evaluations, as well as what happens when a family member or loved one fails one of these tests…

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The Economic Impact of Elder Caregiving: A Reflection on 2019 and Actions for 2020

The economic impact of unpaid caregiving is a significant issue across the United States. My personal experience in 2019 is a microcosm of the issues facing people nationwide. In January 2018, the federal government recognized enacted the Recognize, Assist, Include, Support, And Engage (RAISE) Family Caregivers Act into law. Until February 7, 2020, caregivers have the opportunity to provide input online to the RAISE Family Caregiving Advisory Council about their challenges and potential solutions.

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Siblings and Caregiving: A Shoulder to Lean On or a Wellspring of Stress?

Caring for an elderly parent is tough enough. What happens when there’s tension or disagreement between siblings about what’s in Mom’s or Dad’s best interest? The Family Caregiver Alliance offers some tips. As an only child, this is foreign territory for me, so I’d also be interested in learning what has worked for others.

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Loneliness and Seniors: Can Redefining What Independence Looks Like Help?

Longevity seems like a recipe for social isolation and loneliness. The negative health effects associated with loneliness are profound. Yet, many older people cling to concepts of independence that may contribute to their isolation. What can caregivers and the community do to help?

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Dementia, Emotional Contagion, and the "Caregiver's Mask"

Emotional contagion occurs when people mimic the emotions that they see in others. Researchers have found that emotional contagion is increased in individuals with mild cognitive impairment, as well as Alzheimer's disease. In this post, we’ll explore the "caregiver's mask" — this is a useful tool to prevent agitation in family members, but it can also take a personal toll on caregivers.

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Comprehensive Dementia Care Programs: Caregivers Are an Essential Part of the Equation

Unpaid caregivers provide 83% of total care to individuals with dementia. In 2018 alone, 18.5 billion hours of care valued at $234 billion were provided by family, friends, and other unpaid caregivers. Fortunately, healthcare systems and various not-for-profit foundations and advocacy organizations are exploring more comprehensive approaches to dementia care which provide resources for caregivers that can reduce their stress.

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Could Serving Customers with Dementia & Alzheimer's Be a Competitive Differentiator?

With Americans in the 65+ age group expected to grow to 88 million by 2050, we can expect that the number of individuals with Alzheimer's and dementia will increase by at least 50%. At most consumer-oriented companies, ears would perk up in response to a customer segment comprised of millions of potential buyers. Could serving individuals with dementia and Alzheimer's be a competitive differentiator for companies?

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When the Doctor Has Ordered Lab Tests and Your Parent Has Dementia…

This blog post may tread into the territory of TMI (too much information). However, if your parent has dementia or Alzheimer’s, helping them with lab tests can quickly become a challenge. While caring for my Dad, I adopted five techniques to help both of us through the trauma of routine lab tests. It’s my hope that these may help others out there too.

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Collaborative Problem Solving: Can We Expand the Lens to Include Both Children and Individuals with Dementia and Alzheimer's?

Parents of children with behavioral challenges may be familiar with two experts in the field of collaborative problem solving: Dr. J. Stuart Ablon (Director of Think:Kids) and Dr. Ross Greene (Founding Director of Lives in the Balance). In this post, we’ll explore how the collaborative problem solving techniques and “Plan B” approach recommended for children could also be used productively by adult children interacting with parents suffering from dementia and Alzheimer's.

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Do You Need a Geriatric Care Manager?

Caring for an elderly parent often feels similar to parenting. It can be a lot of routine appointments and tasks to ensure that your family member is safe, healthy, and cared for. But, what happens when you encounter critical situations where you just don't know where to turn? It might be beneficial to hire a geriatric care manager. In this post, we’ll explore when and why you might use this type of resource.

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The Car Conversation: When and How to Broach the Topic With Your Elderly Parent

In the United States, cars and driving are an integral part of our culture of personal independence. So, what happens when your elderly parent shows signs that they might not be safe behind the wheel? The “car conversation” is often a difficult one which stirs up feelings of defensiveness, frustration, and anxiety for all involved. In this post, we’ll offer thoughts on when and how to broach this sensitive topic.

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Caregiving Case Studies: When In-Home Care is a Good Fit

One of the challenging aspects of senior caregiving is that every situation is unique. Caregiving Case Study posts give readers insight into how different families have approached eldercare and the lessons they’ve learned. I recently interviewed Mary Anglade, CEO and Founder of sparqGEN Marketing, about her caregiving experiences with her dad.

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Aging-In-Place Villages: Helping Elders Stay at Home Through Community Volunteering

In many communities around the United States, “aging in place villages” are springing up. These membership based organizations help seniors stay in their homes for as long as possible. I recently interviewed Carol Donohue, the Website and Software Chair of Bay to Sound Neighbors. She explained what aging in place villages are, how Bay to Sound Neighbors works, and how people can find villages in their area.

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